Norman Vincent Peale

Saturday, December 31, 2011

December 31

Here is a New Year’s Eve thought to ensure a great day every day beginning now. Saint Paul says, “. . . walk in newness of life” (Romans 6:4). What does that mean? It simply means to get rid of all these old barnacles that have encrusted you for so long: resentments, dishonesties, rationalizations, fears, weaknesses, and so on. These must all go, so that you may “walk in newness of life."

When you're new, you feel like walking, head up, standing tall, for you have fresh new power. That God may reactivate your life so that you may “walk in newness of life,” why not just be done with some things. Get so tired of the old, so fed up with it, that you are done with it. If you've been full of fear, be done with being full of fear. If you’ve been full of error and defeat, be done with it. Say, “By God's grace, I’m done with it,” and take charge of yourself like never before. And, for certain, it will be a Happy New Year for you.

December 30

To start your new year right, I suggest finding a deeper spiritual life. Something happens deep within you and thereafter you are filled with joy and warmth and beauty. This may happen quickly and dramatically. It could happen today. On the other hand, it may be a developing experience, unfolding as a rose, beginning with a bud and ending with full flowering. But, however it happens, this is the greatest experience possible to a human being.

December 29

As the old year runs out, one of the most important skills you can cultivate is the ability to forget. If you really want to move away from failures and unpleasant experiences, you’ve got to be able to say, “Okay, I’ve had it—now I'll forget it.” Then do just that. “. . . forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth . . . I press toward the mark . . .” (Philippians 3:13, 14).

December 28

Marcus Aurelius, the Roman emperor, said: “Life is what our thoughts make it.” Saint Paul said substantially the same thing: “. . . be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind . . .” (Romans 12:2). This is the great secret that Christianity has given people across the centuries, changing them from desultory to vital, from dead to alive, from weak to strong, from dull to alert. “I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me" (Galatians 2:20).

December 27

A physician says that 70 percent of his patients reveal resentment in their case histories. “Ill will and grudges help to make people sick. Forgiveness,” he says, “will do more toward getting them well than many pills.” So it is healthy to forgive, to say nothing of its being the right way to live. Develop the habit of looking for people's good points. Everybody has them. This thought may help you get ready for great days in the upcoming new year.

December 26

We are much disturbed by antagonisms held by other people toward us but usually little concerned by the unfriendly feelings we have for them. We think the other man ought to change, but give little consideration to the possibility that we ourselves ought to change. To get changed spiritually ourselves—that is the real solution. The spirit of Christmas can help us to do that.

December 25

The Christmas story is ushered in with a song, “. . . and on earth peace, good will toward men" (Luke 2:14). Everyone was joyful, for something wonderful had happened. A great Teacher had come to earth to tell the simple secret of peace and joy. And what a secret it is.

When we have peace in our hearts, we also have love in our hearts and good will toward all men. Who but our Lord could have thought of such a simple way to happiness? And our Saviour, whose birth we celebrate this Christmas day, saves us from our sins and receives us to eternal life. No wonder we happily say to each other today, “Merry Christmas!”

December 24

The poet James Russell Lowell wrote in “A Christmas Carol":

And they who do their souls no wrong
But keep at eve the faith of mom,
Shall daily hear the angel-song
“Today the Prince of Peace is born!”

There's a lifelong glory to the Christmas season, from wide-eyed childhood to old age. It’s an inexpressible glory. Keep it that way always.

December 23

What greater happiness can come to a family than the arrival of a baby! Surely it is a sign that God has blessed that marriage and that home. A baby is God’s masterpiece—a wonderful creation of His infinite mind. The arrival of baby Jesus brought a great and exciting happiness into the world.

December 22

Our children are the citizens of the future who must be taught not to lie and cheat but to be honest people like the sturdy and decent forefathers who forged our great country. Dishonest living is a blow at the United States itself, for a free land can survive only through men and women of integrity. Tell them that the Child of Bethlehem came to make people good.

December 21

Perhaps courage is a basic life quality which God gives us. It builds up the spirit in crises. Moments may come when courage alone stands between us and disaster. In the long pull, across the years, there will be times when we need dogged courage to keep us going when the going is hard.

And what is the source of such rugged courage? It is surely that sense of God's presence when we hear Him say, “I am with you always.”

December 20 - Winter!

Winter! Some do not like it much, but endure it. Others go away from it to warmer climates and sojourn among palm trees and on sandy beaches warmed by a golden sun. Followers of perennial summer and devotees of higher temperatures, they have long since lost acquaintance with winter’s rugged delights.

But some of us are devoted lovers of the four seasons. Having lived among them for so long, the changing of the seasons is our inherited life-style. And while, now and then, we grumble at the ice and snow, we really don't mind winter all that much and, believe it or not, we like it most of the time.

A summer night in June or July can be of entrancing beauty and charm, but the same may be said of many a Winter evening in December or January. It is a time of snow crunching underfoot, the night clear and cold, brilliant stars in the sky, moonlight so bright it rivals noonday. The glorious colors of warmer areas are beautiful beyond the ability to describe them, especially when one tries to convey the exotic fragrances of tropical or semitropical flowers. But then, black and white can be beautiful, too, either separately or in combination.

Only recently, returning from a winter afternoon’s walk on our farm on Quaker Hill, Ruth and I simultaneously stopped, arrested by the beauty of the scene before us. Our house atop a hill stood etched in white against a blue sky, its stately Corinthian columns gleaming in the early setting of the sun in the west. Snow lay deep upon the ground, festooned on bushes and trees.

The long white fences ran off into the distance, lined by gigantic maples, stark and black against the white-clad hills. Long shafts of golden sunlight lay across the snow-covered lawns as the winter evening came down cold and stern. This beauty was of black and white to which gold was added. Ruth enthusiastically agreed when I exclaimed, “In its own glorious way, this just has to be as beautiful as that lovely southland.” “Yes,” she replied, “but isn't all of God’s great world beautiful, north or south or wherever?”

Winter silences have their meaningful appeal to the reflective mind. Gliding cross-country on skis into a lonely grove of trees, then standing still and quiet until the palpable silence makes itself felt is, in a deep sense, to be at one with the essence of life. I have been alone in the same grove of trees in midsummer, but nature is not so silent then—for aliveness is all around. In winter, nature’s utter and incredible stillness steals upon one, though at either time the healing of her gentle touch is felt. But whether it is the tentative change of nature’s spring-time, or the fullness of her summer, or the flaming glory of autumn, or finally, the disciplinary cold of winter, the good God made them all for us.

December 20

“This is the refreshing . . .” said the prophet Isaiah (28:12). These few words remind us of a spring of cool water. They have a renewing quality. The frequent use of this text has an invigorating effect. After a busy day or in the midst of tiring details, as in Christmas activities, stop and say these words over to yourself and note how they dissipate weariness and refresh the body, mind, and spirit. Say them slowly, emphasizing their soft and quiet melody. At the same time, conceive of peace, rest, and renewal as coming to you. They will.

December 19

Everyone has both a best and a worst side. A poet once said, “There is an unseen battlefield in every human breast where two opposing forces meet and where they seldom rest.” For every human being the great issue is which of the two shall triumph and prevail in him, the worst or the best? You must pray for the best.

December 18

I often think of my grandmother, how she would talk with God and about God, as simply as with her next-door neighbor. She talked to me when I was a lad, about God as a kindly Father, about Christ as the Head of the house. She had a framed placard hung up which read, “Christ is the head of this house, the Unseen Listener to every conversation. . . ." Christ was around about at all times. He was very near because Grandma and Grandpa practiced religious conversations. In those days they shared their spiritual experiences and talked about the deep things of life. Sharing God brings you closer to Him.

December 17

Our taxi made about two blocks in fifteen minutes that Christmas season. “This traffic is terrible,” my companion growled. “It draws off what little Christmas spirit I’ve got.” My other companion was more philosophical, “It sure is something,” he mused, “really something. Just think of it. A baby born more than nineteen hundred years ago, over five thousand miles away, causes a traffic jam on Fifth Avenue. Yep, that sure is something!”

December 16

Christianity is not only a philosophy; it’s not only a theology. It is also a science. A science is any body of truth that is based on demonstrable formulas. Jesus gives us such formulas. If you love, you will get loving results; if you hate, you will get hateful results. He tells us that, if we live a good life, we will experience inner joy. Christianity works for all who try it.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

December 15

An enemy of worry is reason. Hit your anxiety hard with reason. Worry is an emotion; reason is a sound mental process. No emotion can stand long against cool, factual, reasoned analyst. Spread your worry out and apply reason to it. Take it apart and see how its constituent elements fade in the presence of reason.

December 14

Dare to be what you ought to be; dare to be what you dream to be; dare to be the finest you can be. The more you dare, the surer you will be of gaining just what you dare. But if you go at things timorously, telling yourself, “I’m afraid I’ll never make it” or “I just know I can never do it” or “I haven’t got what it takes,” then you will get a result in kind. Dream great dreams; dare great dreams. Have great hopes, dare great hopes. Have great expectations. “. . . The Lord is the strength of my life . . . in this will I be confident.” (Psalm 27:1-3).

December 13

Set apart a regular time to deliberately still your thoughts and emotions so that you may commune with your deeper self. When the mind is agitated by the noise, hurry, and confusion of modern life, you cannot truly consult the creative depths within yourself where lie answers to your perplexing problems. Remember Thomas Carlyle’s words: “Silence is the element in which great things fashion themselves together.”

December 12

To have courage, think courage. We become what we think. As you think courage, courage will fill your thoughts and displace fear. The more courageous your thinking, the greater the courage you will have. Act courageously. Practice the “as if” principle. Act as if you are courageous and you will become as you think and act. A person should pray for courage as he prays for his daily bread. And your prayer for courage will enable you to think and act with courage.

December 11

Arve Hatcher tells how, after a heavy blizzard, his car was stuck in a snow pile, and his efforts to get it moving only dug its wheels in deeper and deeper. Down the street came a muscular teenager carrying a shovel. When he saw the problem he promptly got to work and set the car free.

“Many thanks,” Hatcher said gratefully, and reached to hand him some folded bills. “No way,” the teenager said with a smile. “I belong to the DUO Club.” “Never heard of it,” Hatcher replied. “Sure you have,” the boy grinned. “It's the do-unto-others-as-you-would-have-them-do-unto-you club.” And with a wave of his hand and another big smile, he was on his way.

December 10

A pilot told me that some of the big jet airplanes have a series of blades extending down the wings which cause air to swirl toward the rear of the plane. This provides the necessary turbulence for directional accuracy in flight. If the air is too smooth, some roughness has to be added to improve flight conditions. Perhaps suffering and hardship serve the same purpose for a human being. Maybe we need “turbulence” to help us develop a sense of direction so that we may ultimately reach the destination intended for us in life.

December 9

When trouble strikes, what you want is not only comfort and sympathy. You want strength to stand up to it and meet it. You can have both. Remind yourself that God is with you, that He will never fail you that you can count upon Him. Say these words: “God is with me, helping me” and “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” This will give you a sense of comfort. New hope will flood your mind. Emotional reaction will give way to rational thinking. New ideas will come. A new sense of strength will be yours. Result—you will rise above your trouble.

December 8

Never laugh off anyone who has an evangelical zeal for or against anything. A single individual with strong and zealous determination can stimulate amazing forces which may become dominant, even when a vast majority disagrees. A fat, sleepy majority can be pushed around by a few persons aflame with positive conviction or negative destructiveness. Both are powerful motivators. Fortunately, positive convictions are more powerful than negative ones.

December 7

One man checks on the rightness or wrongness of a proposed action this way: He visualizes his role reported in big black headlines in tomorrow’s newspaper. If something in him winces at the thought, he tells himself he had better censor that action.

December 6

At any point in our lives each of us is standing on a kind of moral ladder. There are rungs above us and rungs below. We can climb up or we can step down. Or we can simply stand still, which is the easiest thing to do, because it requires no effort and involves no risk. What we really have to do if we are interested in self-development is make up our minds to move up a rung then another and another on the moral ladder.

December 5

By dwelling too much upon mistakes you can keep yourself in an error groove. Mistakes can be teachers—but they can also be leeches, clinging to your thinking, conditioning you to make the same mistakes again. It is all too easy to let yesterday's mistakes ruin today. Train your mind to learn from your successes.

December 4

How do you draw on a higher power? Practice living with God. Live with Him every day. Be with Jesus Christ. Talk to Him. Have conversation with Him as a friend. Pray to Him. Think about Him. Do not do anything, however seemingly small or insignificant, without bringing Him into it. The more you do this, the more you will identify with divine forces, and the power flow from them to you will increase.

December 3

On an airplane in the Far East, in typhoon season, I asked the pilot how he handled those strong winds. “Oh,” he replied, “I turn typhoons into tailwinds!” In life there are many troubles, some seemingly as big as typhoons. With faith in God and by using the mind He gave you, you can learn the laws that govern trouble. Then you can turn difficulty into opportunity and make it speed you on your way with a strong tailwind to achievement.

December 2

My wife, Ruth, was at a church dinner out west and was seated across from a farmer. His hands and windblown look showed how he had toiled. She asked, “How are the crops this year?” “Ma’am,” he replied, “we had a long drought, then came the grasshoppers. I lost ninety percent of my crop. But my brother lost all of his." Appalled, Ruth asked, “But what did your brother do?" Quietly, he answered, “We just aimed to forget it.” Next year offers a new beginning.

December 1

Two words—deny yourself—are important to self-control. They may relate to success or to failure. Refuse the candy, skip second helpings, don’t buy the dress, don't goof off—where will you start to say no to yourself? Don't consider it a decision against some form of fun but a decision for a desired goal in your life. This makes it a positive, not a negative step. This isn't taking the joy out of life. Actually it’s putting the joy into life. The more we give up to concentrate on an important goal, the stronger we become. Self-denial in the present, to gain greater benefits in the future, is the hallmark of a rational human being.