Norman Vincent Peale

Saturday, December 31, 2011

December 31

Here is a New Year’s Eve thought to ensure a great day every day beginning now. Saint Paul says, “. . . walk in newness of life” (Romans 6:4). What does that mean? It simply means to get rid of all these old barnacles that have encrusted you for so long: resentments, dishonesties, rationalizations, fears, weaknesses, and so on. These must all go, so that you may “walk in newness of life."

When you're new, you feel like walking, head up, standing tall, for you have fresh new power. That God may reactivate your life so that you may “walk in newness of life,” why not just be done with some things. Get so tired of the old, so fed up with it, that you are done with it. If you've been full of fear, be done with being full of fear. If you’ve been full of error and defeat, be done with it. Say, “By God's grace, I’m done with it,” and take charge of yourself like never before. And, for certain, it will be a Happy New Year for you.

December 30

To start your new year right, I suggest finding a deeper spiritual life. Something happens deep within you and thereafter you are filled with joy and warmth and beauty. This may happen quickly and dramatically. It could happen today. On the other hand, it may be a developing experience, unfolding as a rose, beginning with a bud and ending with full flowering. But, however it happens, this is the greatest experience possible to a human being.

December 29

As the old year runs out, one of the most important skills you can cultivate is the ability to forget. If you really want to move away from failures and unpleasant experiences, you’ve got to be able to say, “Okay, I’ve had it—now I'll forget it.” Then do just that. “. . . forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth . . . I press toward the mark . . .” (Philippians 3:13, 14).

December 28

Marcus Aurelius, the Roman emperor, said: “Life is what our thoughts make it.” Saint Paul said substantially the same thing: “. . . be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind . . .” (Romans 12:2). This is the great secret that Christianity has given people across the centuries, changing them from desultory to vital, from dead to alive, from weak to strong, from dull to alert. “I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me" (Galatians 2:20).

December 27

A physician says that 70 percent of his patients reveal resentment in their case histories. “Ill will and grudges help to make people sick. Forgiveness,” he says, “will do more toward getting them well than many pills.” So it is healthy to forgive, to say nothing of its being the right way to live. Develop the habit of looking for people's good points. Everybody has them. This thought may help you get ready for great days in the upcoming new year.

December 26

We are much disturbed by antagonisms held by other people toward us but usually little concerned by the unfriendly feelings we have for them. We think the other man ought to change, but give little consideration to the possibility that we ourselves ought to change. To get changed spiritually ourselves—that is the real solution. The spirit of Christmas can help us to do that.

December 25

The Christmas story is ushered in with a song, “. . . and on earth peace, good will toward men" (Luke 2:14). Everyone was joyful, for something wonderful had happened. A great Teacher had come to earth to tell the simple secret of peace and joy. And what a secret it is.

When we have peace in our hearts, we also have love in our hearts and good will toward all men. Who but our Lord could have thought of such a simple way to happiness? And our Saviour, whose birth we celebrate this Christmas day, saves us from our sins and receives us to eternal life. No wonder we happily say to each other today, “Merry Christmas!”

December 24

The poet James Russell Lowell wrote in “A Christmas Carol":

And they who do their souls no wrong
But keep at eve the faith of mom,
Shall daily hear the angel-song
“Today the Prince of Peace is born!”

There's a lifelong glory to the Christmas season, from wide-eyed childhood to old age. It’s an inexpressible glory. Keep it that way always.

December 23

What greater happiness can come to a family than the arrival of a baby! Surely it is a sign that God has blessed that marriage and that home. A baby is God’s masterpiece—a wonderful creation of His infinite mind. The arrival of baby Jesus brought a great and exciting happiness into the world.

December 22

Our children are the citizens of the future who must be taught not to lie and cheat but to be honest people like the sturdy and decent forefathers who forged our great country. Dishonest living is a blow at the United States itself, for a free land can survive only through men and women of integrity. Tell them that the Child of Bethlehem came to make people good.

December 21

Perhaps courage is a basic life quality which God gives us. It builds up the spirit in crises. Moments may come when courage alone stands between us and disaster. In the long pull, across the years, there will be times when we need dogged courage to keep us going when the going is hard.

And what is the source of such rugged courage? It is surely that sense of God's presence when we hear Him say, “I am with you always.”

December 20 - Winter!

Winter! Some do not like it much, but endure it. Others go away from it to warmer climates and sojourn among palm trees and on sandy beaches warmed by a golden sun. Followers of perennial summer and devotees of higher temperatures, they have long since lost acquaintance with winter’s rugged delights.

But some of us are devoted lovers of the four seasons. Having lived among them for so long, the changing of the seasons is our inherited life-style. And while, now and then, we grumble at the ice and snow, we really don't mind winter all that much and, believe it or not, we like it most of the time.

A summer night in June or July can be of entrancing beauty and charm, but the same may be said of many a Winter evening in December or January. It is a time of snow crunching underfoot, the night clear and cold, brilliant stars in the sky, moonlight so bright it rivals noonday. The glorious colors of warmer areas are beautiful beyond the ability to describe them, especially when one tries to convey the exotic fragrances of tropical or semitropical flowers. But then, black and white can be beautiful, too, either separately or in combination.

Only recently, returning from a winter afternoon’s walk on our farm on Quaker Hill, Ruth and I simultaneously stopped, arrested by the beauty of the scene before us. Our house atop a hill stood etched in white against a blue sky, its stately Corinthian columns gleaming in the early setting of the sun in the west. Snow lay deep upon the ground, festooned on bushes and trees.

The long white fences ran off into the distance, lined by gigantic maples, stark and black against the white-clad hills. Long shafts of golden sunlight lay across the snow-covered lawns as the winter evening came down cold and stern. This beauty was of black and white to which gold was added. Ruth enthusiastically agreed when I exclaimed, “In its own glorious way, this just has to be as beautiful as that lovely southland.” “Yes,” she replied, “but isn't all of God’s great world beautiful, north or south or wherever?”

Winter silences have their meaningful appeal to the reflective mind. Gliding cross-country on skis into a lonely grove of trees, then standing still and quiet until the palpable silence makes itself felt is, in a deep sense, to be at one with the essence of life. I have been alone in the same grove of trees in midsummer, but nature is not so silent then—for aliveness is all around. In winter, nature’s utter and incredible stillness steals upon one, though at either time the healing of her gentle touch is felt. But whether it is the tentative change of nature’s spring-time, or the fullness of her summer, or the flaming glory of autumn, or finally, the disciplinary cold of winter, the good God made them all for us.

December 20

“This is the refreshing . . .” said the prophet Isaiah (28:12). These few words remind us of a spring of cool water. They have a renewing quality. The frequent use of this text has an invigorating effect. After a busy day or in the midst of tiring details, as in Christmas activities, stop and say these words over to yourself and note how they dissipate weariness and refresh the body, mind, and spirit. Say them slowly, emphasizing their soft and quiet melody. At the same time, conceive of peace, rest, and renewal as coming to you. They will.

December 19

Everyone has both a best and a worst side. A poet once said, “There is an unseen battlefield in every human breast where two opposing forces meet and where they seldom rest.” For every human being the great issue is which of the two shall triumph and prevail in him, the worst or the best? You must pray for the best.

December 18

I often think of my grandmother, how she would talk with God and about God, as simply as with her next-door neighbor. She talked to me when I was a lad, about God as a kindly Father, about Christ as the Head of the house. She had a framed placard hung up which read, “Christ is the head of this house, the Unseen Listener to every conversation. . . ." Christ was around about at all times. He was very near because Grandma and Grandpa practiced religious conversations. In those days they shared their spiritual experiences and talked about the deep things of life. Sharing God brings you closer to Him.

December 17

Our taxi made about two blocks in fifteen minutes that Christmas season. “This traffic is terrible,” my companion growled. “It draws off what little Christmas spirit I’ve got.” My other companion was more philosophical, “It sure is something,” he mused, “really something. Just think of it. A baby born more than nineteen hundred years ago, over five thousand miles away, causes a traffic jam on Fifth Avenue. Yep, that sure is something!”

December 16

Christianity is not only a philosophy; it’s not only a theology. It is also a science. A science is any body of truth that is based on demonstrable formulas. Jesus gives us such formulas. If you love, you will get loving results; if you hate, you will get hateful results. He tells us that, if we live a good life, we will experience inner joy. Christianity works for all who try it.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

December 15

An enemy of worry is reason. Hit your anxiety hard with reason. Worry is an emotion; reason is a sound mental process. No emotion can stand long against cool, factual, reasoned analyst. Spread your worry out and apply reason to it. Take it apart and see how its constituent elements fade in the presence of reason.

December 14

Dare to be what you ought to be; dare to be what you dream to be; dare to be the finest you can be. The more you dare, the surer you will be of gaining just what you dare. But if you go at things timorously, telling yourself, “I’m afraid I’ll never make it” or “I just know I can never do it” or “I haven’t got what it takes,” then you will get a result in kind. Dream great dreams; dare great dreams. Have great hopes, dare great hopes. Have great expectations. “. . . The Lord is the strength of my life . . . in this will I be confident.” (Psalm 27:1-3).

December 13

Set apart a regular time to deliberately still your thoughts and emotions so that you may commune with your deeper self. When the mind is agitated by the noise, hurry, and confusion of modern life, you cannot truly consult the creative depths within yourself where lie answers to your perplexing problems. Remember Thomas Carlyle’s words: “Silence is the element in which great things fashion themselves together.”

December 12

To have courage, think courage. We become what we think. As you think courage, courage will fill your thoughts and displace fear. The more courageous your thinking, the greater the courage you will have. Act courageously. Practice the “as if” principle. Act as if you are courageous and you will become as you think and act. A person should pray for courage as he prays for his daily bread. And your prayer for courage will enable you to think and act with courage.

December 11

Arve Hatcher tells how, after a heavy blizzard, his car was stuck in a snow pile, and his efforts to get it moving only dug its wheels in deeper and deeper. Down the street came a muscular teenager carrying a shovel. When he saw the problem he promptly got to work and set the car free.

“Many thanks,” Hatcher said gratefully, and reached to hand him some folded bills. “No way,” the teenager said with a smile. “I belong to the DUO Club.” “Never heard of it,” Hatcher replied. “Sure you have,” the boy grinned. “It's the do-unto-others-as-you-would-have-them-do-unto-you club.” And with a wave of his hand and another big smile, he was on his way.

December 10

A pilot told me that some of the big jet airplanes have a series of blades extending down the wings which cause air to swirl toward the rear of the plane. This provides the necessary turbulence for directional accuracy in flight. If the air is too smooth, some roughness has to be added to improve flight conditions. Perhaps suffering and hardship serve the same purpose for a human being. Maybe we need “turbulence” to help us develop a sense of direction so that we may ultimately reach the destination intended for us in life.

December 9

When trouble strikes, what you want is not only comfort and sympathy. You want strength to stand up to it and meet it. You can have both. Remind yourself that God is with you, that He will never fail you that you can count upon Him. Say these words: “God is with me, helping me” and “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” This will give you a sense of comfort. New hope will flood your mind. Emotional reaction will give way to rational thinking. New ideas will come. A new sense of strength will be yours. Result—you will rise above your trouble.

December 8

Never laugh off anyone who has an evangelical zeal for or against anything. A single individual with strong and zealous determination can stimulate amazing forces which may become dominant, even when a vast majority disagrees. A fat, sleepy majority can be pushed around by a few persons aflame with positive conviction or negative destructiveness. Both are powerful motivators. Fortunately, positive convictions are more powerful than negative ones.

December 7

One man checks on the rightness or wrongness of a proposed action this way: He visualizes his role reported in big black headlines in tomorrow’s newspaper. If something in him winces at the thought, he tells himself he had better censor that action.

December 6

At any point in our lives each of us is standing on a kind of moral ladder. There are rungs above us and rungs below. We can climb up or we can step down. Or we can simply stand still, which is the easiest thing to do, because it requires no effort and involves no risk. What we really have to do if we are interested in self-development is make up our minds to move up a rung then another and another on the moral ladder.

December 5

By dwelling too much upon mistakes you can keep yourself in an error groove. Mistakes can be teachers—but they can also be leeches, clinging to your thinking, conditioning you to make the same mistakes again. It is all too easy to let yesterday's mistakes ruin today. Train your mind to learn from your successes.

December 4

How do you draw on a higher power? Practice living with God. Live with Him every day. Be with Jesus Christ. Talk to Him. Have conversation with Him as a friend. Pray to Him. Think about Him. Do not do anything, however seemingly small or insignificant, without bringing Him into it. The more you do this, the more you will identify with divine forces, and the power flow from them to you will increase.

December 3

On an airplane in the Far East, in typhoon season, I asked the pilot how he handled those strong winds. “Oh,” he replied, “I turn typhoons into tailwinds!” In life there are many troubles, some seemingly as big as typhoons. With faith in God and by using the mind He gave you, you can learn the laws that govern trouble. Then you can turn difficulty into opportunity and make it speed you on your way with a strong tailwind to achievement.

December 2

My wife, Ruth, was at a church dinner out west and was seated across from a farmer. His hands and windblown look showed how he had toiled. She asked, “How are the crops this year?” “Ma’am,” he replied, “we had a long drought, then came the grasshoppers. I lost ninety percent of my crop. But my brother lost all of his." Appalled, Ruth asked, “But what did your brother do?" Quietly, he answered, “We just aimed to forget it.” Next year offers a new beginning.

December 1

Two words—deny yourself—are important to self-control. They may relate to success or to failure. Refuse the candy, skip second helpings, don’t buy the dress, don't goof off—where will you start to say no to yourself? Don't consider it a decision against some form of fun but a decision for a desired goal in your life. This makes it a positive, not a negative step. This isn't taking the joy out of life. Actually it’s putting the joy into life. The more we give up to concentrate on an important goal, the stronger we become. Self-denial in the present, to gain greater benefits in the future, is the hallmark of a rational human being.

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

November 30

In one sense, the big issue of our personal life is the competition between error and when error is in the saddle and rides us, we do dumb things and spend a lot of time regretting them. When truth is in control, we stay on the beam and handle life’s problems masterfully.

November 29

My brother, Bob, and I used to fight each other occasionally, but if any other boy attacked either of us, he had both of us to contend with. We have been inseparable all lives; our fighting ended a long time ago. Our love is lifelong—and even beyond. The love of our brothers and sisters is a gift for which we should be grateful.

November 28

Prayer of a distracted parent: Dear Lord, I love my children but they are driving me to distraction. I have lost my self-control. I need help. I realize, dear Lord, that I can never direct them in their young lives if I am disorganized. Help me not to be angry and not to shout at them. Give me a sense of humor. Help me to know that their restless energy is a sign of vitality and pan of their development. Don’t let me be tired and upset but rather enter joyfully into my relationship with them. Thank You for my children, Lord, but, don’t let them get me down. Amen.

November 27

The Bible tells us that the sins of the fathers are passed on to succeeding generations. The virtues of the fathers can be passed along, too. If a father is an honest and upright man, and if he establishes any sort of adequate relationship with his sons and daughters, it is going to be very hard for those children to get off the track, or getting off, not to get back on. The desire to emulate and imitate is too strong. 

November 26

Many factors determine the way we go and how we go and where we arrive in life. But one thing is for SURE If you forget those things which are behind, as the Bible teaches, and reach forward toward those things which are ahead, pressing “toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:14), you have a future that will be full of achievement and joy. 

November 25

Here is a prayer to help you to forgive: Lord, You tell us to forgive our enemies. This I want to do—or do I, really? But Lord, I do not know how to forgive—or is it that I just haven’t the moral strength to do so? Deliver me from nursing a grudge. Help me to want to forgive. Fill my mind with magnanimous thoughts. Make me bigger than I’ve been acting. Let me know the joy of forgiveness and reconciliation. The Bible says, “For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you” (Matthew 6:14). So please take my enemy off my hands. And I thank You that I find it in my heart to say, “Be good to him or her.” Amen.

November 24

To have mental health and live successfully, every person must move away from past failures and mistakes and go forward without letting them weigh upon the mind. Never dwell upon the “ifs” but rather upon the “hows.” Forgetting is absolutely necessary to a successful future. Every night, when you lie down to sleep, practice dropping all failures and mistakes into the past. They are over, finished. Look confidently to the future. Go to sleep in peace. God gives you new opportunities every morning.

November 23

Fear lurks among shadows and thrives in darkness. A spiritually darkened mind is a breeding ground for terrifying fears. But, when the mind is filled with the Lord’s presence, it is automatically also filled with light. Intelligent thinking follows and fears are driven off. “The Lord is my light . . . whom shall I fear?” (Psalms 27:1).

November 22

Really, there is one thing that you must never do. You must never, as long as you live, stop believing in yourself! You were made by God, the Creator, and He never made anything badly. When He made you, He made you good, very good. And, therefore, you have the right to hold a high opinion of yourself. A good, healthy self-respect is normal and right. So have a great day today and a great life always.

November 21

Thanksgiving is a grateful recognition of past benefits and the activator of blessings yet to come. Thankfulness stimulates a continuous flow of blessings. If, in your life, there is a paucity of blessings, it may be that your practice of thankfulness has grown weak and inactive. The attitude of gratitude is important in achieving wholeness in life. Only by enumerating the many blessings bestowed upon us can we fully appreciate the generous bounty of God.

November 20

No matter how dark things become, someone is always with you—and that someone is God. He helps by giving you peace and a positive mental attitude. With these, you can start real creative thinking and, as a result, will be able to take a hopeful and not a negative view. Such dynamic thinking will start things coming your way and presently you will find yourself on top of trouble.

November 19

Problems are a normal and essential part of all of life. Strength develops from standing up to them, thinking them through, and mastering them. By approaching problems in a positive frame of mind, you can always derive good from them, no matter how difficult they may be.

November 18

The more we apply mental power against seemingly hopeless difficulties and follow the flashes of insight which come from real thinking, the surer our accomplishment. Thinking gives one the daring to do the unusual when a situation calls for it: a readiness to shift thinking quickly when problems turn out differently than anticipated.

November 17

The word resentment means to re-feel—to feel again. Someone wrongs or wounds you; in resenting it, you re-feel the injury. And you re-hurt yourself. The Hebrew Talmud says that a person who bears a grudge is “like one who, having cut one hand while handling a knife, avenges himself by stabbing the other hand.” The best way to avoid this self-inflicted suffering is to apply “spiritual iodine” the moment anybody hurts you. Get your resentment healed at once, before it starts to fester.

November 16

Repeat these four statements when tense and uptight:

From Confucius: “The way of a superior man is threefold: virtuous, therefore free from anxiety; wise, therefore free from perplexity; bold, therefore free from fear.”

From Robert Louis Stevenson: “Sit loosely in the saddle of life.”

From Saint Theresa, a sixteenth-century mystic: “Let nothing disturb you; let nothing frighten you. Everything passes except God; God alone is sufficient.”

From Isaiah: “. . .in quietness and in confidence shall be your strength” (Isaiah 30:15).

November 15

Want to give up smoking or, for that matter, anything else? The desire to smoke is basically one of thought, plus a nervous impulse to do something with the hands. Also involved is the infantile tendency to put something in the mouth. To quit, decide you really want to quit. Intense desire is always basic in achieving or quitting. Then, decide you are really going to quit.

Finally, picture yourself as being released from the habit. Hold that picture firmly and tenaciously until your subconscious mind accepts it. Do not try to taper off—stop entirely. Ask God to help you and believe that He will. The desire is primarily in your mind—think victory thoughts and images. To cure the nervous movement of the hands, practice control of muscle tension. Believe you can—and you can.

November 14

An old Oriental maxim says, “What you think upon grows.” You tend to become what you think of yourself as being. Raise your appraisal of yourself. Affirm that you have greater possibilities than have ever yet appeared. Don’t self-limit yourself, even in your private thoughts. Always see yourself as greater than you have ever been.

November 13

There are rules to follow if you wish to get along with others:
1. Know the names of all with whom you associate and speak to them by name.
2. Be quick with praise.
3. Always be constructive if it is necessary to  criticize.
4. Keep your temper under control.
5. Always be ready to lend a helping hand.
6. Readily admit your own mistakes and never hesitate to say, “I’m sorry.”
7. Take a real interest in the organization which employs you.
8. Seek no acclaim for achievement but always give someone else the credit due him or her.
9. Assume that other people like you.
10. Try to like and esteem other people as you would have them like and esteem you.

November 12

Rural wisdom: On the platform of a small-town railroad station years ago, two men and a dog watched the express train streak past. The dog went racing after it—and was still chasing and barking at it when the last car vanished in the distance. “Crazy fool dog! Does he think he can catch the Empire State Express?” snorted the stationmaster. After a reflective silence, his friend observed, “And what would he do with it if he did?”

November 11

An important question for anyone is: What am I doing to my own self? Am I making myself big to equate with the power potential in me? Or am I accepting smallness as all I am capable of? To think yourself smaller than you are is a violation of your real nature. Think big!

November 10

A salesman was having trouble making sales, always afraid, forever whistling in the dark. An older salesman gave him a three-sentence prayer. The results were miraculous and his percentage of sales rose steadily. This is the prayer he used: “I believe I am always divinely guided. I believe I will be led always to take the right turn of the road. I believe that God will always make a way where there is no way.”

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

November 9

How to relax? Repeat slowly and quietly, bringing out the melody in each, a series of words which express quietness and peace, as, for example, tranquility (say it very deliberately and in a tranquil manner), serenity, quietness, imperturbability. Say the following, which has an amazing power to quiet the mind and relax the body: “Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee” (Isaiah 26:3). repeat this several times during the day and you will find relaxation.

November 8

The world offers so much fun and pleasure. It is pathetic how little of it many people find. Thousands live in what might be called “pleasure poverty” despite the available wealth of fun opportunities. They keep their noses to the grindstone and develop a sad crop of neuroses and tensions. Work is good but, when it’s mixed with fun, it’s a lot better. Don’t be a fun pauper! Revel in the delights a good God has put into the world!

November 7

As a boy I had an enormous inferiority complex and, believe me, it was no fun. I used to go around thinking negatively: "I don't amount to anything. I have few brains and no ability." I became aware, after a while, that others were agreeing with me. They always will—for, unconsciously, people will take you at your own self-appraisal.

Saturday, November 5, 2011

November 6

A successful businessman told me what had turned the tide for him when he was doing poorly. It was a picture of a boat stuck in the sand, the tide was out. The title of that picture was The Tide Always Comes Back. Don't ever accept defeat. Never even think, I can't. Instead, say to yourself, "The tide always comes back." It will, if you will it so.

November 5

Take minute vacations during the day. Sit back in your office chair. Close your eyes and, in memory, go away to some place that means a lot to you, such as where you like to fish or play golf, or swim. Letting the mind go away, if only for a moment, tones up the body with an infusion of fresh energy.

November 4

George Cullum, Sr., Dallas construction executive, had a formula for himself and his men. He used to say: "When the job gets tough, get as tough as the job. When the rock gets hard, get as hard as the rock." Life can be tough, really tough. But God built something in human nature that is tougher still. Draw on it.

November 3

One man's rules for making a success in life are:
  1. Practice the affirmation of God's presence daily.
  2. Pray for those with whom you work and pray.
  3. Image success not only for yourself but also for your competitors.
  4. Try to live by faith.

November 2

An uptight man once said to me, speaking of New York, "The very air of this city is filled with tension." "Not so," I said, "If you were to take a sampling of this air to a laboratory for analysis, you wouldn't find a trace of tension in the air. You see, tension is in the minds of people who breathe the air."

November 1

You and I, ten years from now, will be mostly what we think during that period. You can think yourself to failure and unhappiness, or you think your way to success and real happiness. Better give your thoughts a good overhaul once in a while. Think good days today and you'll have them tomorrow as well.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

October 31

Ever practice remembered peacefulness? I think of a favorite spot in Switzerland, remembering how, at evening time, the snows on the mountains change coloring from brilliant gold to mystic purple and then fade into the dark. I think of a night on the China Sea when mists veiling the face of the moon were blown aside by a gentle breeze to allow long, silvery shafts of moonlight to fall on limpid waters. I think of a night at Srinagar in the Vale of Kashmir, where the sound of singing boatmen came across the lake on the surface of which water lilies floated. Once in my doctor's office, my pulse and blood pressure readings were taken. "Well!" he said, "that's fine. You have learned to live calmly." I told him the technique of remembered beauty to help promote tranquility. He nodded, "Good, that helps in keeping healthy."

October 30

Basic in living creatively is to accept pain and difficulty as a challenge. God, who made this universe, gives us difficulties for our own best interest. He wants to make something of us and people do not grow strong in soft and fortuitous circumstances. Struggle toughens personalty.

October 29

When you attain a sense of undefeatableness, you will always be high-spirited and confident. Spirit is taken out of you when you allow yourself to be overwhelmed, nonplussed, and stymied by circumstances and conditions. An important secret of success is to get yourself firmly based in spiritual understanding, in faith and positive thinking. Then nothing, no matter what, can defeat you. You will have attained indomitability.

October 28

We are continuously building up or breaking down the self. Through the years, every thought, every emotion, every experience contributes to the quality of self. No matter how old or how set we become, self is in the making. Everything contributes to its greatness or littleness, its stagnation or growth. What will your contribution be today?

October 27

Experience bears out the thesis that things go wrong because we are wrong. If we resolutely seek to understand where we're wrong and make changes, we are on our way to better things. "Most of the shadows of this life," said Ralph Waldo Emerson, "are caused by standing in our own sunshine." When we get busy changing attitudes that have been casting shadows and making things go wrong, then things start going right. A changed person changes situations and conditions.

October 26

Here are five simple and workable rules for overcoming inadequacy attitudes and for learning to believe in yourself:
  1. Formulate and stamp indelibly on your mind a mental picture of yourself as succeeding. Hold this picture tenaciously. Never permit it to fade. Your mind will seek to develop this picture as fact. Never think of yourself as failing; never doubt the reality of the mental image.
  2. Whenever a negative thought concerning your ability comes to mind, deliberately voice a positive thought to cancel it out.
  3. Do not build obstacles in your imagination. Depreciate every so-called obstacle. Minimize them. Difficulties must be studied and efficiently dealt with, but they must be seen only for what they are. They must not be inflated by fear thoughts.
  4. Do not be awestruck by other people or try to copy them. Nobody can be you as efficiently as you can.
  5. Ten times a day repeat these words: "If God be for me, who can be against me?" (See Romans 8:31).



October 25

Get worked up about your job and you will work your job up. Get fired up about about it and you will put fire into it. Any human occupation has excitement in it if you have excitement in you. And how do you find this excitement? A famous French writer answered with these words: "Faith is an excitement and an enthusiasm: it is a condition of intellectual magnificence to which we must cling as a treasure."

October 24

I continually advocate that you be a true optimist, rugged mentally, a real believer. No doubt-thinking person can be an optimist, for an optimist is a person who believes in good outcomes even when he can't yet see them. That is also the Bible's definition of faith as "the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." So the real believer is a person who believes in better things when there is yet no evidence to confirm his expectation. He is one who believes in his own future even when he cannot see much possibility in it.

Saturday, October 15, 2011

October 23

A basic fact about every individual is the craving to be appreciated. One can find happiness by looking for the best in other people, and that will bring the best out of them. And it also helps when we put the best possible connotation on everyone and everything. Faith in people and a positive attitude can release these tremendous resources that are resident in everyone.

October 22

Here is a prayer to start this day, to help you make it a great day:

"Dear Lord, thank You for the night's rest You so graciously gave me. I am grateful for renewed energy and enthusiasm. I accept this new day as a wonderful opportunity. May I use it minute by minute to do Thy will. Guide me in every problem, every decision I shall make this day. Help me to treat everyone kindly and to be fair and just and thoughtful in everything today. And if I should forget Thee during this day, O Lord, please do not forget me. Amen."

October 21

He lives today no less than long ago. He is alive, not merely as Caesar and Napoleon and Lincoln, for example, are alive - as memories of great men. Jesus is not a memory. He is an actual, contemporary, reachable Person. He is the living Christ, who has power to enter into people's lives and change and lift them up. Every day the very much alive Lord Jesus is at work among us.

October 20

A good man who had always walked with God approached death. The light was on in his room. Suddenly, a look of surprise crossed the dying man's face. "Turn out the light, the sun is up," he said - and was gone. Apparently it is always light and beautiful over there. But it can be the same here as well when we think it so.

October 19

One of the greatest blessings in this world is to have good, sound healthy-mindedness. The person who possesses it is most fortunate. Healthy-mindedness is to be a normal, well-balanced, integrated, well-organized human being. It means a mind devoid of inner conflicts and obsessive reactions. The emotional aspect of your nature is under the control of your reason or mind. When you achieve such healthy-mindedness you are free of abnormal fear, free of hate; you are not motivated by resentments; you are free of sulkiness, gloominess, and depressiveness. And such a condition makes for a life that is good every day.

October 18

I rode with a man who had the following prayer taped to his instrument [dashboard] panel:

"Dear Lord, this is Your car. Put Your hands on the steering wheel along with mine and guide me through busy streets and highways. Protect this car from all danger and accident. Give us a safe and pleasant journey. Keep me from getting angry at other drivers. Help me to be polite and observe the rules of the road. Let my driving be a pleasure and not a strain. Amen."

October 17

It is never necessary for any individual to live a dull, uninteresting and lackluster life. If one does so, it is because of just letting life become that way. No one needs to live in frustration or allow oneself to become old, worn, and tired. Everyone has the opportunity to open wide the mind and heart, to live a life that is dynamic and exciting. Becoming a positive thinker will help you to have a good day.

Monday, October 10, 2011

October 16

I have not slightest doubt concerning the truth and validity of immortality. I believe absolutely and certainly that, when you die, you will meet your loved ones and know them and be reunited with them, never to be separated again. I believe that identity of personality will continue in that greater sphere of life in which there will be no suffering or sorrow as we know them here in the physical sense. I hope there will be struggle, for struggle is good. Certainly there will be ongoing development, for life with no upward effort of the spirit would be incredibly dull. In the teachings of Jesus Christ, death does not refer to the body but rather to the soul: "The soul that sinneth, it shall die" (Ezekiel 18:20). But the soul that is in God will live forever.

October 15

A young woman successfully achieved a considerable weight loss - here is what she did: She pictured explicitly the weight she wanted to reach by a certain age. Each time she was tempted, she estimated how long it would take her to eat the gooey desserts, chocolates, or other rich food. Then she thought how happy she would feel after those few minutes had she not eaten it. For the first time she began to experience the thrill of self-mastery. At bedtime, she ran over her temptations mentally and added up all the fattening things she had not eaten that day. Eagerly, she looked forward to topping her record the next day. She achieved her weight goal. And she held it, too.

October 14

It's good to keep our dreams of the future and the thrill of going somewhere ever luring us on. When I was a newspaper reporter, my editor wrote a piece I've kept for years:


"As a boy of fourteen I stopped Old Bess in the furrow where I was trying to cultivate my father's cornfield. The field was near the railroad track which crossed a trestle. I took off my cap, wiped my brow, and looked up at the fast train of the Baltimore & Ohio Railroad. At every window, as the train sped on, was someone going somewhere. I had never been anywhere, but then and there I made up my mind that someday I would be on my way. I have been on my way ever since, but there are still so many places to go, so many fascinating things to see and do. The train went around the bend. But the dreams of a boy, as the twilight came down, are the dreams I have today. The future beckons with the same mystic allure. It was so in the cornfield; it is so now."

October 13

A champion golfer says, "What you think while playing golf is probably the most important single part of your game." He stresses the importance of concentration and the practice of visualizing what you want to achieve. The champion confidently projects in his mind the exact direction of flight designed to take the ball where he wants it to go. This principle of imagining also works in determining and reaching goals in life. One must know precisely where he or she wants to go. By firmly visualizing that goal, you force a focus on it and then you can reach it.

October 12

Five words from the Bible can determine the success of any person or any enterprise: "Seek, and ye shall find" (Matthew 7:7). Seek a need - the world has many. Find a need you can fill and you are on the way to success in life.

October 11

How do you go about being a happy person? One way is to get into God's rhythm. The heavenly bodies are in rhythm. The internal system of blood and heart and organs are in rhythm. And rhythm is a kind of synonym of harmony, as harmony is one for joy. Therefore, when you are joyful you are in rhythm, and when you are in harmony with God, you are a happy person.

Saturday, October 8, 2011

October 10

Perhaps we have wanted to reach some goal still unattained and to be something which we have not yet accomplished. Let's determine that before this year ends, goals will be reached and dreams come true. Then we will dream new dreams and set higher goals for the years yet to come.

October 9

The important fact isn't that we have problems. It is rather our attitude toward problems. There is a small sign in my office that states a big truth: "Attitudes are more important than facts." Of course you cannot ignore a fact, but the attitude of mind with which you approach that fact is all-important.

October 8

Heart is the essence of creative activity. Fire the heart with where you want to go and what you want to be. Get that goal so deeply fixed in your unconscious that you will not take no for an answer. Then your entire personality, your total mentality, will follow where your heart leads. You will go where you want to go, be what you want to be.

October 7

The secret of a successful life is to reduce the error and increase the truth. It is because of the error in us that we make so many mistakes, do so many stupid things, get ourselves into so much trouble, and have things turn out wrong so much of the time. The opposite of error is truth. Jesus Christ said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life" (John 14:6). When we follow Him we follow the truth. The more truth, the fewer errors. It is just that simple.

Monday, October 3, 2011

October 3

A businessman told me he was going to fire a certain employee because the man was slow, dull, and sleepy. "Instead of firing him out of the business, why not fire him into the business?" I asked. "You mean build a fire under him?" he demanded. "No," I said, "build a fire in him. Get him excited. get him motivated." The employer did just that and now he reports of the same employee, "The man is a ball of fire."

October 6

One of Thomas Jefferson's rules of personal conduct was, "Always take hold of things by the smooth handle." Go at a job or at a difficulty or at a personal-relationship problem by a method that will encounter the least resistance. The less resistance, the faster things move.

October 5

A tornado swept through a southwestern city doing great damage. A mother there, confined to her bed because of infantile paralysis, paralyzed from the waist down, at the height of the tornado became alarmed for her two children in the next room. There was no one to help; the tornado was striking the house with force. Her limbs were assumed to be without power, but concern for the safety of her children was stronger than her limitations.

Slowly she got out of bed and painfully made her way into the adjoining room. Taking her babies in her arms, she walked with them out of the house. Love proved more powerful than the paralysis from which she had been told she might never recover. Some people become paralyzed, not in their limbs, but in their thoughts. They accept limitations by saying, "This is all I can do." But that depreciating self-appraisal is not the truth. You are greater than you think you are.

October 4

The Bible gives a tremendous statement which, in the softness of these days, is scarcely ever quoted, at least not often enough. I heard it frequently in the sturdier days of my boyhood: "Quit you like men, be strong" (1 Corinthians 16:13). We simply have to develop sturdiness of will if the tough, hard problems of life are to be handled effectively. Every person has a will. If it is soft, exercise will strengthen it. Think of your will as a "muscle" of the spirit. Like any muscle, if not exercised, it becomes flabby. But, with repeated use, it toughens up, acquiring tone and resiliency.

Friday, September 30, 2011

October 2

Real forgiveness involves no holding back at all. One must go the whole distance in restoring relationships. I f one says, "I will forgive you the wrong you have done me, but I can never forget it," that is only qualified forgiveness. To make it real forgiveness, forgetting must be added.

October 1

Fear is the strongest thought pattern, save one. Faith is always stronger than fear. Where faith is, fear cannot live. Faith withers fear. You can crowd fear out by filling your mind with faith. It is an absolute, demonstrable fact that the person who practices faith, real faith in God, rises so high above fear that it can no longer affect that individual.

September 30

Along in September, up our way, the "line storms" come. High winds of gale force were driving across the ridge on our farm. I heard something groaning and found it was a huge maple tree, 150 years old. But it wasn't groaning; actually it was laughing. It was having the time of its life with that wind. Maybe it's going to come down, I thought. "Don't worry," it seemed to say, "I was here before you and I'll be here after you're gone." Oh, trees do go down sometimes, but then what happens? A little shoot comes up and a new tree is started. Human beings are of the same breed. They are absolutely undefeatable when they know they are. But they've got to know it.

September 29

To combat that "overwhelmed" feeling, use the old military maxim: Concentrate your forces and attack at the point where you may achieve breakthrough. Don't sit around wringing your hands because so many problems and difficulties beset you. Pick out one, break it down into manageable parts, and go after each part in turn.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

September 28

Here is one week's treatment for tension, uptightness, and stress. Begin it today and continue for the next seven days:

First Day:
"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you...Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid" (John 14:27)

Second Day:
"Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee" (Isaiah 26:3)

Third Day:
"My presence shall go with thee, and I will give thee rest" (Exodus 33:14)

Fourth Day:
"Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for him; fret not thyself..." (Psalms 37:7)

Fifth Day:
"Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)

Sixth Day:
"Let the peace of God rule in your hearts..." (Colossians 3:15)

Seventh Day:
"He maketh me to lie down in green pastures; he leadeth me beside the still waters, He restoreth my soul" (Psalms 23: 2,3)

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

September 27

While talking with a physician, I asked what he thought were the physiological advantages of optimism over depression. He told me: Depression in the mind increases the possibility of infection at least tenfold. Optimism actually may help as a force burning out infection. People who maintain a confident attitude have a strange power over sickness. I recommend an attitude of optimism and faith as one of the greatest aids to health.

Monday, September 26, 2011

September 26

Always start the day with prayer. It is the greatest of all mind conditioners. Even if you do not have the time, pray. It is that important. Always begin the day with the thought of God, His love and care, and with the thought of your responsibility for serving Him.

An old friend of mine said it well: "Fill the mind full of God and the whole day will be full of happiness, even if the going gets hard."

Sunday, September 25, 2011

September 25

"Do you ever try talking about God?" I asked a woman whose marriage was not going well. "No," she answered, "my husband talks a great deal about God, but not in the way you mean. When we talk, we argue and quarrel about bills and every unpleasant thing you can think of." I suggested she try returning thanks at the table, for a start.

Usually, her husband would sit down and glumly pull up his napkin. Finally, one night, she interrupted softly, "I'm going to return thanks." She did the same the next night, and the next, and the next, until, finally, he said: "Okay, it's my turn. I am going to return thanks!"

After that, it was easier to talk about things sanely. They tell me that now their marriage is "in good shape."